Let me start by saying, YES I am single and YES that gives me all the qualifications to give others relationship advice. It's actually one of my favorite past times... so here we go. Are you chasing a man? Do you feel alone with someone you’re in a relationship with? Has anyone even bothered to tell your how beautiful you are today? Are you staring at your phone for hours waiting on a response from someone who "loves" you? If you can say no to any** of those questions, he’s not the one, sis. The man for you, he will chase you. He will want all of his friends and family to know that you’re with him. He won’t stop you from resting your hand on his leg when you go out in public or pull away when you go to hold his hand. He won’t ask you to stop talking about your relationship or planning a future together. The man for you will literally be shouting from the rooftop about how absolutely phenomenal, stunning, kind, smart and important you are. One thing I've learned in all my 27 years around men is that they will not change for anyone but THE one. If he loves you, he will work on his shitty communication. If he values you, he will go to events that aren't really "his thing" just because they make you smile. (Don't worry guys- the same is true for women) If he loves you, it will be unconditional. Just for reference, God created woman from man’s rib. That’s by his side. Not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior- but from his side to be his equal partner. Under his arm to be protected by him and close to his heart to be loved by him. If this doesn‘t sound like your relationship he either needs to step up, or you need to step out. There are "wrong direction" signs posted every where- pay attention. Know your worth ladies. The only one who gets to decide your worth is YOU. It doesn't come from the number of friends you have, the amount of zero's in your bank account or what anyone else says about you. It comes from being proud of who you are. It comes from being a person that you and others can count on. Who you have in your corner will change over time, but what won't ever change is who you are in your core. You are beautiful, limitless, creative, strong and capable. If a man doesn't recognize your worth on his own, its his loss.
This wasn't meant to be long and drawn out. This is just a reminder that you are enough, and one day the man who will hold your heart won't have to be reminded of that. He will know.
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